The influence of falling Bizarre Love To provide the Human Body

Love is strange to give effect in humans, scientists said. When you fall in love, the rate of hormone also affected the brain chemical us. Italian scientists conduct research on 12 men and 12 women who fall in love in the last 6 months. They found, the men have this hormone testosteron rate lower than the normal, while women have a higher rate of hormone instead usually.
"Men, in some cases, become more like women, and women become more like men," said Donatella Marazziti of the University of Pisa to the New Scientist magazine. "In the circumstances fall in love, the human body naturally seems to want to eliminate the differences between men and women, so that the relationship can survive. "
The study also shows enamored affect nervous circuits in the brain associated with social assessment of other people. This is a critical function, so that people are often the "love is blind." That is why men or women often turn a blind eye to errors or weaknesses partner. Research conducted in 1999 by Italian scientists, also shows the rate of serotonin in the brain so we lower the lovelorn. Serotonin, working to generate empathy, happiness, and knowledge.
The rate of serotonin is suspected with the same low rate serotonion people who suffer interference obsessive-kompulsif (GOK). GOK is a repetition of mind-thoughts, words or deeds that do not see baseless, and although we realize irasionalitas it, by the concerned can not be prevented or avoided.
So is understandable when you are in love and sometimes our minds so be it related to our partner, such as suspicious or jealous not baseless. The discovery of these discoveries, according to Professor Gareth Leng of the University of Edinburg, is to help us understand ourselves better. With the discovery yesterday, can be found at a new treatment for people who have problems in terms of building relationships with other people.

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The Amount of Power in Love

The strength of love is extraordinary. People who fall in love will be willing to give up anything for the love of it. Love makes everything beautiful, although must be passed by suffering.
The strength of love that makes the Bilal bin Rabbah prefer dried in the hot sand of the unbelievers shall return, although a protestor threw a stone large weigh up to nearly shatter the breast bone. With calm, he mentions the name his paramour,''Ahad, Ahad, Ahad.''Similarly, Abdurrahman bin auf, wealthy merchant friends dawn. He was willing to spend for the sake of jihad property fisabilillah. On the basis of all love.
Landscape also feel how it its terrible strength. They willingly emigrated to Medina with a walk-Based miles away, across the sands of the dry and hot sake of saving faith. Because the love of Allah SWT on, brave valorous with their rushing to go to the battlefield. Without fear, wealth, blood, and lives, they consistent Tebasan with the sword and a spear in order to prove a sincere love. Birth to the sacrifice of love and priorities.
Evidence to the love of God is not the only story of the past. The current can be brothers so that our love of God, even though the property and lives peril. I remember some of the stories our brothers in Medan that the Tsunami hear landslide in Aceh, they go directly to bring a bicycle and adequate supplies to rescue the remaining people. Once through the field may not follow the vehicle, they immediately bicycle pedal-Based miles to reach the disaster area, although none of the press cover it. There is even a volunteer from Jakarta who until after amputated hands, so take some bones exposed disease hands.
We may never see a traders, workers, drivers, who are very income barely even possible " did last " but they still survive in the work place only because of propaganda reasons. "Everyone is not that we manage the people here, who again?" They said. Even they may be able to move to a more "wet" and pursue wealth in other places. It seems there are other motivations in themselves, because other than the love of God.
If we truly love God, then God will love and help us. If we love God, we would willingly sacrifice everything with the sacrifice of the best. If the true love of Allah SWT, we will take the world is only moderate. Looking for property not for overstatement, but as a means of worship. If the true love of God, will we be rushing Wudhu when adzan is called by, because the fact is adzan In the call. If the true love of Allah SWT, on every third night we awake to the one prayer, although fatigue, drowsiness, cold and tan. If we are to love God, we will certainly concerned about the condition and welfare of people of faith.
Worship without love will be based on weight and feel useless. As a person who admitted to believe, we have Correct the love of God? Is the extent to which we exceed His love for us to the other?

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There is Strength in Love

There is strength in love. Who is able to give love
a strong person, because he can overcome his desire to be selfish.
There is strength in the laughter fun. Happy people laugh is a strong person, because he did not pitch with the challenges and protracted trial.
There is strength in the peace themselves. People who himself is fully peaceful, happy people are strong because it never affected and are not easily deceived.
There is strength in patience. Patient who is a strong person because he was able to bear all things, and he did not feel accountability moment.
There is strength in the Star. People charitable, which is a strong person because he did not hold the mouth and hands to do good for each other.
There is strength in the good. The person who is strong, because he can always afford to do that for the good of all people.
There is strength in loyalty. People who are strong, because it can overcome the desires and wishes with personal loyalty to God and his people.
There is strength in the disadvantaged. A gentle person who is strong, because he could not forbear to retaliate.
There is strength in the mastery of self. People who can control themselves is a strong person, because he can control all worldly appetite.
Review of a friend that you also have enough strength to overcome all the problems in this life? Wherever, and as hard as any. Because the trial will never be tolerated
beyond our strength.

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of life such as butterfly

Someone find the chrysalis animal swing. One day a small hole appears. He sat in a few hours to observe the prospective butterfly when he was struggling with the force himself to go through the small hole.

Then butterfly it stops making progress. He seems to have as his, and he can not further. Finally, these people decided to help her. He takes a scissors and cut the remaining bit of the cocoon.

Butterfly was out easily. However, he has a bulging body and small, wing-wing contract. These people continue to observe it because he hopes that, at a time, the wings, the wings will rise and widen so that they can sustain the body, which may be developed in line with time.

All never happened.

In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of his life in the surrounding fours with the body of bloat and wing-wing contract.

He never could fly.

That is not understandable from the good people and speed is that the cocoon and the struggle that the butterfly needed to pass through a small hole is the way to force the fluid from the body of the butterfly-wing in the wings such that he will be ready to fly so he obtain freedom from the cocoon.

Sometimes the struggle is that we need in our life. If God let us live without obstacles struggle, it may be we would be crippling.

We may not be the proper tooth needed to sustain the ideals and expectations that we ask. We probably will not ever be "limited". Indeed, God Almighty and Merciful refused. We implore Strength ... And God gave us difficulties for our members.

We apply the policy ... And God gave us life Various issues to be resolved so that we grow wise.

We implore prosperity ... And God gave us brain and Energy to be used fully in achieving prosperity.

We implore courage ... And God gave Disaster and Danger to overcome.

We apply the Love ... And God gave us the problematic people to be saved and loved.

We Request Star / favor. And God gives us opportunities that alternately switch.

That's the way God We guide.

If I do not get that I want, that means I do not get all that I need?

Sometimes God does not give what we ask, but with God would provide the best for us, most of us do not understand know, do not even want to accept the plan of God, when in fact it is the best for us.

Stay fight ... and try to surrender ...

If it is the best then surely the Lord will give it to us.

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Rasulullah Loves

Those who are hard hearts will not know love. There is no iota of softness in themselves. Their hearts like the hard coral. Rigid mold, when both give and receive. Less sensitive feelings, thin ones again his humanity. Unlike the case with people who have Alloh Ta'ala a gentle, loving full-Star again. He called the owner of a decent heart full of love for the majestic. Exercise is covered with affection and driven by a fine.

Morals Rasululloh Shalallaahu Life is waiting for me sick but I'm still so exalted that motivate us to Learning its and nursing impression he steps. In this era now, I fall on the children and put them in the proper position is very rare that we find. Even their families are prospective leaders tomorrow, they are the embryo of the future and the dawn light, the local government later. Ignorance and hubris, shallow thoughts and the narrowness of his views lead to the loss of key opener to the hearts of toddlers and children. Meanwhile Rasululloh Shalallaahu sick but I'm still Life is waiting for me, the key is opening hearts in his hands and verbally. Try to see, Rasululloh Shalallaahu Life is waiting for me sick but I'm still always make children happy to him, they respect and glorify him. It is not surprising, because he put them in a high position.

Although the children's usual whine and complain and crotchety, but Rasululloh Shalallaahu Life is waiting for me sick but I'm still not angry, hitting, they snap and snarl. He still apply gentle and still behave calmly in the face of them.

Although the children's usual whine and complain and crotchety, but Rasululloh Shalallaahu Life is waiting for me sick but I'm still not angry, hitting, they snap and snarl. He still apply gentle and still behave calmly in the face of them.

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Parents love to his children

Through the love of parents, children get a first taste of security in a world that is completely foreign. The tie means the children receive in good condition and unprincipled. Children are very sensitive to feeling rejected. To feel secure children need to be embraced, Below, and was told that they let. Love to help any child that will happen.

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Love is....

Love is like a butterfly. Add be pursued, added run. But he left the aircraft, he will not come while you expect it. Love can be happy tale but also often make sad, but love the new value if given to someone who appreciate it. So do not hurry and select the best.

Love is not how to become a "perfect" for someone. But how to find someone who can help you become yourself.

Never "I love you" if you do not care. Do not ever discuss that did not exist. Never touch someone's life if it will destroy the heart. Do not ever contemplate eyes if all you do is lie.

This is a most unkind to do is to let other people fall in love, while you do not intend to catching ...

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Love is the best antidepressant

Love is as critical for your mind and body as oxygen. It's not negotiable. The more connected you are, the healthier you will be both physically and emotionally. The less connected you are, the more you are at risk.

It is also true that the less love you have, the more depression you are likely to experience in your life. Love is probably the best antidepressant there is because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most depressed people don't love themselves and they do not feel loved by others. They also are very self-focused, making them less attractive to others and depriving them of opportunities to learn the skills of love.

There is a mythology in our culture that love just happens. As a result, the depressed often sit around passively waiting for someone to love them. But love doesn't work that way. To get love and keep love you have to go out and be active and learn a variety of specific skills.

Most of us get our ideas of love from popular culture. We come to believe that love is something that sweeps us off our feet. But the pop-culture ideal of love consists of unrealistic images created for entertainment, which is one reason so many of us are set up to be depressed. It's part of our national vulnerability, like eating junk food, constantly stimulated by images of instant gratification. We think it is love when it's simply distraction and infatuation.

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